I promise I'll get back to the unemotional crap soon, I just want to get a little feedback on some stuff.
I'm not like most people. That's a big thing to say, yet everyone says it. We all say we're different, but whose to judge who is and who isn't.
We're all the same. We eat the same food, drive the same cars, get the same education and work the same jobs.
We're all different too, though. Our minds aren't the same. We all have different views on ethics, politics, religion, and different appreciations for different things. We all face different experiences in our lives.
The one that get's me the most is when people tell me I should start dating around to sort of play the field and understand how women work. To me, that's just wrong. A relationship is what you have with someone that you care for and love with all your heart. The one you think about every night when you lay in bed, keeping you up for hours, smiling. Why would I want to have a relationship with someone you don't expect to spend your entire life with. Not that I would want to spend my entire life with anyone in the first place. That would be just horrible.
Back home, the only thing I hear from my parents is how they're always arguing, getting mad at each other for what seems to be the stupidest reasons. Sure they're still together and claim to be happy for that, but how can they say that when they live every day in what seems to be agony. Friends get girlfriends, tell them they want to be together forever and get tattoos of each other's names. They break up soon after as if they didn't expect it coming. They cry for a few days then head off to find another one as if a girlfriend is just an expendable friend. This happens with children in high school, what makes them think they're ready to spend their entire life with that one person? Relationships are a joke, people need variety and freedom. They don't want their significant other holding them back from doing what they really want to do.
Overall, to me it seems like trying to bind yourself to one person for your life is just the worst mistake ever. It can only lead to sadness and most of your paycheck being redirected to the person you now hate for breaking your sad little heart.